Because of this lack of transparency between cross dressers and the Lucky vibes only st. patrick’s t’s and crews shirt in contrast I will get this rest of society there’s a lot of gaps than need filling wherein crossdressers are more than happy to be left alone while the rest of the world assumes whatever it wants to assume. We trade off being left along for a lack of our own understanding. We gain privacy, but at the cost of transparency for who we are as individuals. Since there’s nothing really defined by ourselves, society has to fill in the gaps with what it as on hand. This leads society as a whole to misunderstand who we are as a group and as individuals. Cross dressers often don’t ask difficult questions of themselves because at the root and core of what we do is to take a break from life and relax, letting go of all assumptions of gender. Society, or at least the many discussions I’ve had with people relating to this kind of thing, assumes this one facet is ALL of our facets. It is not. Many people have said that the human animal is a deeply complex and individual being.
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So it could be important for me, as a straight man, to find a woman who accepts all of my facets. Many of them are easy pills to swallow. I’m smart, tall and strong, come from a good family, well spoken, good job, martial artist, contractor, etc. Crossdressing is a much more difficult pill to swallow because instead of seeing it as a reinforcing facet of who I am, it stands at odds with the Lucky vibes only st. patrick’s t’s and crews shirt in contrast I will get this rest of who I am and my many facets. Suddenly I am split, and this is because of a general lack of transparency within the rather insular group of crossdressers as a whole. So I don’t expect women to understand cross dressers, but I DO expect other straight cross dressers to start to open up to women, and society as a whole, as to what this is for each of us as individuals, subsequently reinforcing society’s understanding of who we are as a group. We need to dig deep and expose ourselves within transparent vulnerability. As individuals we are weak, but as a whole, well we are no small army of MEN.
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